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DEAR DEIDRE: I AM having a massive problem with premature ejaculation.

I simply cannot last more than a few minutes and it is frustrating for me and my wife. I am afraid it will kill my marriage.

I can't last in bed and fear our marriage will collapse
Alamy

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I love my wife more than anything and I want to be able to satisfy her in bed.

I have read books and tried to change my mindset but nothing has helped.

I am 25, my wife is 23 and we have been married for six months.

We didn't have sex before marriage as it's against our religion and now she must feel so disappointed.

I am worried sick she will leave me over this.

DEIDRE SAYS: You will struggle to change your mindset all on your own.

But you know what they say about a problem shared . . .

Please do talk to your wife about your desire to please her and the anxiety that she sees you as a failure.

My guess is she will reassure you.

There are lots of practical steps you can take, so you can gradually learn to tune in to your body's sexual signals and develop more control.

Practical self-help sex therapy is also explained in my e-leaflet How Men Can Last Longer.


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